Lucky Enough to Be Irish Is Lucky Enough: Irish Gift of the Gab

A certain percentage of my husband is Irish. The rest of him reluctantly concedes being Scottish and Welsh – a fact that some would say makes him a danger to his own bodily well-being. Like his Chinese/Irish buddy who isn’t sure which half is which, he likes to joke that he isn’t sure where exactly his Irishness is located.

But I know.

It’s all right there in the gab.

The Irish are famous for the gift of the gab. The word blarney is theirs – after a stone that belonged to a castle whose owner, well, blarneyed his way out of handing it over to the English crown. (Eventually, the crown got tired of asking nicely.)

My husband tells me that the poor Irish, the Catholic Irish, the very-large-family-indeed Irish developed this enviable gift in their evenings around the fire. Overworked, under-privileged, yet always lively, they cheered themselves by passing down stories of their ancestors.

Sad tales of love, happy tales of war, tales of heroism, revenge, faith, and… whiskey. These were savored and doubtless, flavored. It was an oral tradition like that of Homer, complete with saints and miracles, witches and leprechauns, always with a crackle of good Christian humor.

Of course, the very same, themselves, also gave us ardent hymns such as, “To Jesus Heart all Burning” and blessings that double as wedding toasts:

May your neighbors respect you

Trouble neglect you

The angels protect you

And heaven accept you

Every nation has its poets. In Ireland it’s the words themselves that are famous, not those who made them. It would seem that the good Lord thought it would be fun to spread the genius out over the entire race rather than bestow it all upon a single Shakespeare.

If you are foolish enough to cross an Irishman, you might find yourself the target of a zinger. I am reminded of the unfortunate lady who once remarked to my husband’s grandmother Nellie, that really, didn’t she have enough children already? “I’d rather have them on my pillow than on my conscience,” Nellie quipped from her maternity bed.

No matter how many generations removed or how diluted the blood, the Irish thrive off an appetite for the one liner. They’ve got something for every occasion:

Hospitality: “There is no such thing as a stranger, only a friend you have yet to meet.”

Ego: “If you’re lucky enough to be Irish, you’re lucky enough.”

Theology: “God is good but never dance in a small boat.”

Old age: “Do not resent growing old, for many are denied the privilege.”

A farewell: “May the Lord keep you in his hand and never close his fist too tight.”

Friendship: “May the hinges of our friendship never grow rusty.”

A wink between friends: “May you live to be a hundred years, with one extra year to repent.”

A house blessing: “May the roof above us never fall in and the friends below it never fall out.”

Marriage: “There are only three kinds of Irish men who can’t understand women: young men, old men, and men of middle age.”

Sin: “If you lie down with dogs, you’ll rise up with fleas.”

Graduation day: “As you slide down the banister of life, may the splinters never point in the wrong direction.”

And finally, as we celebrate the feast day of that glorious French-educated, Roman Brit who by the grace of God ended up Irish: “Get on your knees and thank the Lord you’re on your feet.”

Originally published as “Irish by Marriage” in Faith and Family Magazine, Spring 2004. Now read: An Unpopular Mercy, also from Faith and Family.

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